How to change personality, be more likable, fun and get rid of weird habits?

Question

I'm socially stunted, gawky and akward. And frankly I'm sick of it.

I want to change myself into someone more fun, charming and a people person. Like those people you see all the time who are confortable with themselves that everyone wants to be around.

How do I do that, is there some sort of service that teaches your how to change your personality for a fee? Or a program?

Thanks

Answer 1

It's because you don't like yourself. That's why others may not like you. A lack of confidence is not very attractive. You consciously desire to change, which makes you a good person already. Just accept who you are, or work on one weakness at a time.  

Answer 2

Just do it.

If you can't figure out how, mimic others that are until you've practiced enough, then strike out with your own style.