Hi
I’m in arelation since 5 years with a man .. since college days now, after graduation I really donno wats happening so asking u for guidance. My man proposed me after a year of knowing me even, after we went out for a year ….he proposed me that he wants to marry me only after knowing me complety .but now hez very confused coz its career & his mom told him not to get this girls proposal home ur friends & just be that .( only after graduation this happened at his place).
. I have been many times to his home when his parents are there,hez very loving ,caring& possessive also .. but now aftr graduation hez willing to go to America for higher studies & I’m not stopping him also being his support.
I’m getting lot of offers & I can’t make my parents wait & want to involve my parents in this relationship. But hez very hesitant hez not willing for any kind of approach .. I asked him if he needs time, is tat v are not financially stable to get married ? n al he just said that I myself donno that wen I’ll be back from America incase my visa comes with so many uncertainty in me what can I tel u .
What should I do he tells me he loves me & wen v decide to break up he patches up . should I wait for him? Should I tell my parents? We are of 2 different religions also. Many times his friends told him to drop me as its not possible to marry her. But he stood next to me he never heard anybody..how should I ask him bout marriage ?which I have asked many times after graduation especially ..
I cannot go with any other guy as I can’t hurt him I dearly love him..
Please guide me .. I just need him to decided when to get married ?we both are 22 nowhe has got a job .. but I’m still in verge of getting one.
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