How to convince my mom to let me stay the night!

Question

I am sixteen and quite mature for my age.

Now I know there have been quite a few people asking this exact question, but I want people to actually answer mine.

I want to know arguments I could make to convince my mom to let me stay the night at my boyfriend's house.

I do anyway, and I think she knows but I just want to come clean and not have to lie anymore.

If you're going to just say that we are too young or that my mother is right in ehr decision, don't bother posting, your not answering my question

oh yea, and we are sexually active and no my mother doesn't know.

Answer 1

Hope your mom never lets you sleep over hope you become pregnant if your mature like you say you are why are you having s*x. MORON

Answer 2

I sort of had this same problem, but not with relationships. The "trust factor". It is a very fine line... Maybe she should meet his parents. It may sound stupid, but that would show responsibility. If she trusted him and his family, she may be less inclined to assume she can't trust you.

Be careful about being "active" though... Some of my friends have had children very young and regret it to this day.

Good luck!

Answer 3

well you need to tell your mom what you're doing if you don't wanna lie anymore.  and i'm only 13 but i still think you are too youngto stay the night.  

Answer 4

Just be confident

Answer 5

Calling yourself mature, yeah right. Sure we live just one time, but why not used our head to think whats right, isnt that whats education is for

Answer 6

If your mother is anything near responsible, there will be no way to persuade her to let you stay at your boyfriend's house. There are no arguments that would really be effective. You could tell her that you're really mature and she would say "you're still only sixteen".  

You could beg, kick, scream and plead and odds are she'd still say "no". Once you ask her to stay with him, she's going to get a big clue that you are sexually active. She's not going to think you want to stay over to play video games. And yes, you are too young.

Answer 7

Why would you ask this question when you know that all the people who are older and more mature than you are going to tell you not to stay overnight with your boyfriend and that your mother is right.

When YOU are older and more mature, you will also know that your mother is right and that you are too young.

It is called being a teen and thinking you know best.

It cures itself by growing up.

Answer 8

So, basically, you've been lying to your mom because she won't approve of you sleeping over your boyfriends.  Now, you want to tell us how to convince your mom to let you sleep over your boyfriends because you don't like feeling guilty for lying to her.  Do you have any idea of how IMMATURE that all sounds?

You've lied and broken trust with your mother.  You don't want to hear anyone tell you you are wrong, because you want to do what you want to do.  Well, hun, I've got some real bad news for you. Not only are you immature, you are engaged in selfish and twisted thinking.

Good luck with that.

Answer 9

try making up some thing.

try blackmailing

whatever u want to do can b done in daylight too

hope i helped

Answer 10

You don't trust me?

Its only one night?

What do you think I'm going to do?

We'll be sleeping in different rooms.(lie)

Or this is how I always got away with it...Since were in 2008 and everyone is contacted by cell phone...Ask your mom if you could sleep over one of your girl friends houses and just go to your boyfriends instead.  If she needs you make sure she calls you and not their house.

Answer 11

having s*x at 16 = not mature

Answer 12

i stay at my bfs house and im 15.

but anyways.. jus tell ur mom u wanna stay wid him and promise her that u wont do anything so she can trust u staying there and knowing ur not gonna do anything. u can also make a deal wid her about u staying there.

and sometimes its good to jus come clean about it and tell her.

maybe u should get him to stay wid u one night at ur house so ur mom can see what kind of guy he is when he wid u at night.

if u get at what im saying..

Answer 13

Sorry, I think you're too young. You shouldn't be making your mom deal with this. Wait until you're 18.

Answer 14

it all really depends on what your parents are like and their feelings about your boyfriend, his family, and their rules. my parents hate my boyfriend - would never allow me to spend the night at his house let alone get in a car with him..but that doesnt stop me. i know that its hard to lie to your parents about something you dont think is a big deal, but if you do ask and your mom says absolutely not, then you get caught - you'll be in a lot more trouble.

but lets seee. some possible arguements

let your mom know that you and your boyfriend are sexually active, being more open with her about that will (yes be awkward) but also show her that you have trust in her. tell her that you take all precautions and safe s*x with no exceptions. have her talk to his parents about sleeping situations and what not (yeah that part will be annoying, but once you're in his house - im pretty sure you'll find a way into his room).

just basically, the more trust your parents have in you, your decisions, and your relationship - the more she will trust you and allow you to do what you want to do.

i really hope everything works out, if she says no - be careful becausee if you're like me - you'll keep sleeping there. and thats why i got caught - dont want you to have to sneak everything like i do..

good luck girl :)