How to convince ur love to marry u??

Question

My boyfriend love me..but he's not willing to marry me now..He wants me to do MBA.sometimes,i wonder that he is doing all this to buy sometime..may be he's not sure about his love.

Answer 1

You can't convince him to marry you now. I'm sorry, but if you want to do an MBA, you should do it for only you not him.

If he is telling you to get one, because you'll make money and you don't want to do it, he doesn't sound like a good guy to marry

Answer 2

Don't rush him into marrying you, it should happen when it feels right for both of you. He might agree to marry you now, but later in your relationship you might both regret rushing things.

Answer 3

I would not push it too hard.  The desire to get married has to come from him.  Otherwise, he may feel like he was pressured into it, and that could lead to a divorce.

Answer 4

You don't have to be married to have a life with someone.  Just take each day one at a time and let your love unfold.  Let his actions in the little every day things reveal to you of how he feels for you. Life is so much mroe than just a wedding.  Try to appreicate that he wants you to get an education for yourself and spend time with you before making such a big commitment. Your bond will be stronger for it. He also may not feel that he or you or the two of you aren't ready for marriage.  It's better to wait until you're ready and have a happier mariage for it, than to rush in to marriage and be miserable afterwards.

Answer 5

It sounds to me like he loves you, but doesn't want to rush into anything. Give it time, get an education, and enjoy the ride.

Answer 6

it can be so annoying. i agree especially since u could always have a two year engagement to save for a wedding. so if he asks today then u could get married by 2010. which is fine. but the longer he waits, ur not getting married and starting ur life with him till (it seems) forever......agh

Answer 7

dont bother him

if he really loves you

then he must marry you

you have not need to convince him to marry

he is your love if he came to you

not when you convince him

best of luck!!

keep smiling:))))

Answer 8

If he loves you & its meant to be then you shouldnt have to convince him....

Answer 9

First of all, stop using the word "convince".  It makes you sound like you're desperate.  Secondly, why are you in such a rush to get married?  Do you feel that this is the only way you'll know for sure that he loves you?  I think that you making this to be more than what it is.  Perhaps your continual "pressure" makes him a little nervous about marrying you.  Lastly, have you ever asked the guy what's taking him so long? If you say the relationship is good, then communication shouldn't be a problem.  Tell him where you stand and how this is affecting you and the stability of the relationship.

Answer 10

Why would you want to marry somebody you have to "convince"?

Answer 11

You don’t “convince” anyone. They choose to or choose not to. If you have to sway them, you should question whether you want to be married to them at all.

Answer 12

Quite difficult to say whether he is willing to marry you or not, but even though give him a chance & go for MBA. Anyhow you have to study further, so why not do MBA & then marry b'coz he's adamant & not listen.

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