How to cope after your husband/partner's infidelity??

Question

My husband has cheated on me throughout our whole relationship(ive only discovered) , i had no idea and feel like an idiot, i have men lining up for me and i just dont have it in me to do that to another person, i dont understand why he has done this to me.. and i really dont know how to move on... i feel like i can give him one more chance but just having a hard time not thinking about it and it not making me angry and in a bad mood, i just dont know if is capable of change... does anyone know how to get over infidelity??and how to gain someones trust after it (for him)...

Answer 1

I had this friend who did the same thing your husband did.  He's been three time and has always had girl friend on he side  He never learned it was just in his blood to cheat.

Forgiving him one more time would be one more mistake on your part I know it hurts to end a marriage.  Somethings must change so everything can remain the same

good Luck

Answer 2

my parents went through this. my father cheated the majority of their relationship. with several different women, and the worst part is that EVERYONE knew. he'd take them out around the community. embarrassed my mom so bad. so she stayed with him but lost tons of weight, tried her best to please him but ended up nothing but too skinny and exhausted. she finally left him and after a while he came back. the simple answer is that he found God. which he did, and now he's the best husband and father ever. but as to the delicate inner workings of the negotiation, i have no idea. i know that this probably doesn't help much, but i maybe it'll help you to know that sometimes people really do change.

Answer 3

Time and God