How to cope with the loss of my mother

Question

ilost my mother 6months ago and I can't seem to get over it

Answer 1

i am so sorry to hear that. I think you can't and should't get over it. You should embrace & learn to live with it. A person's passing doesn't mean you should erase all the memories. I think it should be about celebrating & remembering them for what they have made u.

6 months is too short... It will take years or even a lifetime to deal with it. The most important thing is that u must know that they are always with u, in your hear, mind, soul & your daily life.

Answer 2

Sorry to hear of your loss.  However losing your mom is something that is going to take a while to get over.  You should have someone you can talk to as support.  If you don't have a relative, you should seek counseling.  Losing a loved one is never easy, we always wonder why that person had to leave us.  All you can do from now on is think about the good times you shared with your mother, although it will be painful, but you can always visit her grave site, or look at her picture.  Remember she is not here physically, but spiritually she will always be with you.  You may sometimes look at her picture and cry at first but its ok.... Things will be better.  Just find someone that you can talk to and take your time....  God Bless

Answer 3

You must have been very close. I wouldn't say "get over it" is the right term, more like acceptance and continuing on with your life. You shouldn't ever forget her, but try to think of all the good times you had together. Be sad for your loss, but laugh at all those funny moments, mishaps, and moments you shared. If she saw you struggling right now, what would she tell you? What advice would she give you? It's OK to grieve. Sometimes the best way to heal is to let it out.

Answer 4

srry itll be allright just try talking in your mind about it just say things you want to say to her in your mind and just cry anytime you need to

Answer 5

It's hard to get over the death of someone you've known your whole entire life.  To lose a mother is one of the hardest things in the world to deal with.  Try to keep busy and don't think after 6 months you shouldn't be crying anymore.  I lost my grandmother 5 years ago and saw a picture of her yesterday and I cried because I miss her so much.  Keep your head high. Things will get better.

Answer 6

I'm So sorry for your loss. it's so hard to loose a parent.

Take all the time you need to get over her death. it's only been 6 months. it takes time to get over a death.

Just remember the good times you had with her and maybe you could start a blog about your feelings and just get them out I will keep you in my prayers and If you need to talk you can email me OK. Take Care

Just remember be good to yourself don't try and hide your feelings about your mom talk to people about her and just be good to yourself God Bless

Answer 7

Join a grief support  group where others have lost their mother's and see how they are handling their grief.

I know your mother would not want you to be so miserable.  It usually takes about a year to get your life back in order, where you can think about your mother's life instead of her death.

I lost both my parents several years ago and I still think of them often but when I do, it's about the fun times we shared together, the happy times.

I am thankful God gave us memories so that we can remember the good times, those precious moments we shared together.

It won't be long until it will be those happier times  that you to will remember.

Blessings