How to dance at a party without grinding or bumping?

Question

I use to grind at parties, and I found it a bit gross and uncomfortable after I did it a few times. I started doing it reluctantly, and now I'm sick of it. Do not suggest the tango, salsa, or any of those dances, because this is a high school party we're talking here. Suggestions? Just casual dancing or movement will be fine.

Answer 1

Kudos to you for realizing how gross grinding is =D

If I know the song, I'll kind of seductively sing it to him. If I don't, dancing face-to-face, hands around the neck (girl) and waist (guy) is a safe option.

Watch music videos for ideas (Britney Spears, Danity Kane, Jennifer Lopez, etc. etc.).

Answer 2

just dance all out.

guys wont grind with you if your throwing yourself all over the place!

Answer 3

just like put your hands over your head and dance

and then put your hands over the males neck

Answer 4

Good for you for not willing to sink as low as to grind with a guy. :] I went to my high school dance yesterday, and I couldn't believe how many grinding lines and couples there were.

I prefer to just stay with a group of friends and dance with them.  Just move and feel the beat, sway with it, and once you feel comfortable just start dancing and moving.  With a guy, you can also do this sort of thing by just dancing near him.  You don't have to be grinding and getting dirty to have a good time at a dance. :) Good luck.

Answer 5

just move and feel the beat.