How to dance with a boy?

Question

I am going to be in the 10th grade next year and i still dont know how to dance with a boy. last year at the sadie dance my friends pushed me into this guy. it was an ackward dance then i just walked away. this year i wanna go to the dace with this guy i like. but i dont know how to grind. when people say move ur hips it doesnt help me. do u go side to side or do u add soul or whatev. when i danced i didnt feel comfortable. i wanna look cute dancing but i dont wanna look too much like a s***. PLEASE HELP ME

Answer 1

Dancing with a boy is awkward because you kids don't know how to couple dance properly in the first place.   Don't get me wrong - my generation (I'm an 80s gal) was no better.

Bottom line is you are going to do a two-step shuffle of sorts. In order for you to be able to grind (*roll eyes*) you will need to be cross body to him -- that is, your right foot should be between his two feet and your left foot should be outside his right.  That way if you want to get funky/add soul you will be able to get closer comfortably.

As for moving your hips, try to make figure eights - it's like belly dancing really, where you transfer your weight from one side to the other.

Give a try - practice in the mirror.

Answer 2

ok ima a guy so i will tell u what is good girl dancin...

so u put ur back to him and press ur butt against his crotch

u shuld b able to feel his d**k. then move ur hips side to side and then move them in a circle. if u can do this to the beat of the song then u should b fine

Answer 3

whatever you do dont grind

go and learn like salsa and the type of dances that dont require you to be soooo close to your partner that you barely know.seriously i know a group of yound dancers and they have so much fun dancing and i dont mean the grinding way

Answer 4

okay. lol. i used to have this problem i'm gonna be a freshman, but i couldn't dance last year to save my life and my friends can. but now since we go clubbin' i kinda had to learn to dance and be comfortable.

when your grinding, push against his lowerr bodyy, move your hips & a** along with the beat.

w/techno music... practice in front of hte mirrorr like bascially jumping around and moving ur hips a lil to the music and just going crazy, holding/moving/playing aroundw/ ur hair (i cant rlly describe it any better)

the big thing about dancing is being confident, it's not fun if ur not.

and u have to be into it !!

&PRACTICE IN FRONT OF THE MIRROR !

^^^can't stresss that enuff hahhaaa

you won't look S****y if you don't dress S****y, and since everyone does it, the only girls that do look S****y are the ones that are basically having s*x w/ the guy on the dance floor (it's seriously disgusting how into it some girls get)

Answer 5

lol i dont really care wat the other people say but you could grind or juke

juke- dancing with both of your crotch areas touching

or you dont even have to really dance on him just twerk by your self, moving your hips and plz dont do a figure eight lol that is unless you wanna look like your at a belly dance recital

just shake your *** and put your hands in the air xD

Answer 6

I don't know how to tell you to dance with a boy, but I can tell you that I appreciate your not wanting to look S****y.  It is good to see a young lady that does'nt readily fall into the "norm".  Keep up the good moral values.