I am 28 years old, with no children of my own. I have been dating a man for about six months who has two young children from a previous relationship. I have never before dated a man with children. My issue is that I never know when I will see him, because he does not incorporate me into the life of him and his kids. I know that he may not be ready to introduce me to his kids yet, as I know that is a very important and personal decision. However, I sometimes feel that I get the scraps that are left over in his life. I know that his children have to be his first priority, but it seems that every time we are supposed to do something together he cancels because his ex drops off his kids at the last minute. I am not asking for all of his time, just some level of priority. However, his kids come first, and I would not respect him if he had it any other way! Any ideas on how to deal? Or is this just what I have to put up with when dating a single dad?
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