How to deal with a cheater?

Question

I think my fiance, and babys mother, has been cheating on me. Whats worse is that I think that she is doing it for drugs. Any advice?

Answer 1

Dude i have my kids for that very reason . My ex did the same i tried and tried with her but it seamed she loved the drugs more then her kids and me . You can stay in the going nowhere situation or move on. This is why we need a war on drugs just as much as the war on terrorism. There one and the same destroying family,s every day and no one cares or just to afraid to get involved. I cant really blame people for being afraid being half of the police are in on it to .

Answer 2

this cant be new, are you saying all of a sudden she is cheating for money for drugs? you have a baby with her and you are engaged...did you do your homework before letting her have a child?

do some research, ask around, and keep that baby from her if its true.

Answer 3

get outta the relationship and get your child out too. that's what i did. me and my son are better off for it. and that was 5 yrs ago.

Answer 4

If you think he is cheating on you than maybe your the one doing the cheating

Answer 5

talk to her about it, and if she is , stop her before it gets to late,  

Answer 6

leave her and take ur baby with u if she is on drugs.

Answer 7

take baby and run

Answer 8

You think?? how much evidence is in? this is very serious. If I were you Id be shocked and that puts you in a kind of frozen place where you cant do anything. Talk to a friend, get some comfort and advice. Admit you are in trouble. Surrender.  from there you need to put together some kind of intervention whereby she is confronted successfully with the evidence. If you love her make sure you give it your best shot like even involve other people that love her to get her to wake up before its too late.