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How to deal with a close friend who likes the same girl as i do?

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I had liked this girl, Charlene for 7 months .i told one of my close friends ,Yian about it during the late part of june. He would tease/disturb me with 'charlene is cute' and 'darren likes charlene'. Of course i found it quite annoying and childish. But i didn't do a thing because i thought it was quite minor.

Then on the 1st of August , it was the eve of Yian's birthday . I texted to most of my friends about his birthday . And at that point of time he still teases me with those phrases . Once again , i totally ignored it.

Just so happen , Charlene sent a text to Yian wishing him a happy birthday . Yian , being a good friend , told me her number and encouraged me to talk to her or something.I was happy .

But just recently , Yian got abit overboard . He said he liked Charlene now .Before that , after i told Yian that i liked Charlene during the early parts of june , he also told me he liked this girl Debbie , like exchanging secrets you know. I was fed up but i did not want to lose our friendship so i did not flare up .

Then , he started texting to her very frequently and would say random **** like 'I feel so happy all of a sudden' after receiving a text reply.

Once again , i just kept it within . He also told me that he keeps thinking of Debbie as well.

Just recently , i told Yian that i found his blabbering very annoying and uncomfortable . I told him i was unhappy . He said this. ' An unhappy day is a day wasted . Stop wasting your life' That was my limit . I could not tolerate him anymore . The next day i ignored him completely and i even cried because he was my friend for 2.5 years. I know running away from my problems isn't a good option. it'll make things bad . What should i do ?

I've also got a feeling that Charlene doesn't like him as well and likes me more . I'm also worried for Debbie that she would get hurt.

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  1. You should grow up.

    dont cry over this situation.

    thats dumb. you should ask

    her who she likes more.

    if its you then great job.

    if not get over it.. or you

    could get with debbie?..

    haha.


  2. ask her already and see what happens

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