How to deal with a sad Sag?

Question

He's lost his job and is worried about the future for himself and his family. The Virgo in me is trying to help him find another job like a mad person, but the woman in me says to let him be, a man has to remedy certain things, especially financial on their own to still feel manly...? He says he just needs some time to deal with it and doesnt want to take out his frustrations on anyone. Whats the best way to deal with a sad sag, without irritating them, depressing them, or making them feel like your deserting them?

Answer 1

Relieve some of his stress (in the bedroom) if he is your man.  A clear head is what he needs. I say just keep being supportive and keep a respectable distance so he won't get even more frustrated with his current situation. I think looking for a job is good, there is away of doing it without making it seem like nagging him. Have one last conversation about it. Ask him if he would mind if you could submit his resume to jobs that he is qualified for. If he says yes, then its like he has his own personal assistant and not a nag.

Well at least this is what works for me and my boyfriend when he is out of work. He does't like to be reminded, but he likes the additional hlep.      

Answer 2

Dont call him a sad hag for a start