i watch my niece once a week as a favour but she really tries my patience.
she is so cheeky - everything is no.
she is destructive - she tries to damage things in my home, my daughters toys, anything she can get her hands on.
at times she can be violent - rarely with adults, mostly with my daughter as she is smaller than her, my daughter is 10mos.
ive tried all i can think of, i put her in the travel cot with no toys (naughty step would never work). i make her apologise. i shout at her. i take thing from her. i talk to her to try and explain what she done wrong and why its wrong. but nothing - no change,
my nephew has autism - so we know she isnt exhibiting signs of that , but im at a loss as to how to deal with her.
her parents arent consitent. they smack her for something one day, then let her off with the same thing the next day - ive spoke to them about this but it falls on deaf ears. but she needs to know acting like this in MY house will not be tolerated.
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