How to deal with an ex-friend????

Question

okay, on june 4th, someone i thought was a friend texted me that she didn't want me to eat lunch with her. and she wanted to be in the "original group". i got mad and we argued and we haven't talked since. so i tried to e-mail her earlier this month. she didn't respond. so i made a fake myspace profile to see why she doesn't talk to me. she said to my so called friend of mine who moved away at the end of 4th grade lies to me. how do i deal with those lies? well there's only 1 or 2 lies. also she said that she would call the cops for sexual harassment. i never did anything to harass her at all.

Answer 1

well according to what you wrote up here..you really shouldn't have lied to her... i mean when you start a true healthy friendship with someone it's wrong if you hurt them that way... if it's a white lie which doesn't offend her so much. it's easier to get over but if it's a lie which can really destroy alot of things then you shouldn't have told her...

what does he mean by sexual harrassment if you didn't harass her at all?? have you personally tried talking to her and sorting things out maybe starting over...???

Answer 2

Is the 'Original Group' u and a few friends who used to hang out but stopped bcuz of lies, if so thats why having cliques suck.

i'm a little confused but from wut i see, dont be stressed about it, maybe its a good thing u bot argued and stopped talking. maybe she was like poison is your life causing problems for you anyways. and forget about what happened in 4th grade.. if ur gonna deal with this, grudges arent allowed. and i think she's bluffing about the sexual harrasment thing to make u stop talking to her. and if she's an ex friend why are still talking to her, your friendship didnt deem healthy anyways plus if she wants to hang with different people then so be it. you can find better friends. Also friends do tend to split as they get older.