How to deal with feeling S****y?

Question

Ok, so i went to a concert, got drunk and kissed with a guy who i bearly know, but now everyone knows that even my ex and i`m so afraid of bad rumors and i feel very bad about myself, i`m disguisting to myself. what to do?

Answer 1

Its okay we all mess up... Do not worry about what other people say.  If all they have to do is talk about your personal life then they might want to get one of their own.  Try to stay out of situations like that, and do not drink if you are not in control of what you are doing.  

Answer 2

seriosly just get over it

if all u did was kiss ...... thats nuthin

unless u did sumthin else

then your just gonna have to deal with it ( =

Answer 3

i think the hangover effect is making you feel extra guilty. tomorrow things will not be so bad

all you did was give someone a kiss or whatever, its not a big deal.

at least you didnt give him a BJ lol...and even if you did, you wouldnt be the first and definitely not the last

lifes too short to feel so much guilt for nothing!!

Answer 4

It's just kissing, get over it. It's a double standard--the guy probably feels like a stud, and you feel like a s**t. See how silly it is?  

Answer 5

Ignore it all! I'm letting you know this from experience once a girl does one thing with one guy (random or not) and it gets around she is AUTOMATICALLY a s**t. Now if a guy were to do this he would be a pimp and be praised.

I went through long bouts of depression because I ended up going down on this guy at 15 and he told all of our friends and my rep was "tarnished." I'm 20 now and I finally got that eff them all attitude you're going to need to survive in a world run by men.

Be cautious and be careful, but mostly have fun and be young! What you did was innocent.  

Answer 6

Repent of your sin and look to Jesus for forgiveness.  Don't put yourself in that predicament again

Answer 7

hey you got drunk, so i really wasnt your fault right? ok, so you were the one to get drunk, but everyone makes mistakes. dont eat yourself up over it. that kiss didnt mean anything, you were drunk. its not like you wanted to kiss him because you like him, you were under the influence. your human, dont worry about it. :)

Answer 8

okay, first thing first: you say you were drunk right? so you weren't really feeling like yourself? we all do crazy things when we're drunk and I'm sure you know someone whose done FAR worse.No need to feel bad. Don't worry about it if it was just a kiss,some people do that when their sober and no one so much as bats an eyelid.

If someone DOES say something just ignore it like i said before people have done far worse and its no big deal i swear.

Answer 9

Ignore everyone else. Laugh it off. Everyone gets drunk and does things they regret eventually. If people say something, just grin bashfully and appropriately blush. Eventually it will pass.

I felt pretty embarrassed of myself going to a club once and snogging a guy I didn't know but I just put up with the teasing for a few days until it passed. It will pass, believe me.

Answer 10

Don't do it again. Problem solved.(Y)

Answer 11

Just tell yourself that there are people far worse.

Answer 12

lol that's nothin. you have not been to college yet have you.