How to deal with my pregnant friend when I've recently had a miscarriage?

Question

I'm so happy for her (them) but it's so hard. I'm so sad about losing my babies and drs have advised me not to have any more pregnancies.

My friend and I are very close and I know she understands. Having a baby is such a wonderful thing. I don't want to hurt her feelings.

Answer 1

You don't have to stop being her friend because she is able to naturally have children and it may not be possible for you. Look into your options and be in her child's life so that you can be close to the children in your life. Then include her when you decide whether you adopt or you choose not to try again. Good luck.  

Answer 2

First of all i like to say i am sorry for your lost...I miscarried my first baby and i felt it was the end of the world for me...everyone said it was normal but that still didn't comfort me....Then most of my friends got pregnant at that time and i didn't want to be around any of them just because i would think of why i couldn't be one of them...but finally i got pregnant again and had my healthy baby boy and i can't thank god enough..so keep your head up and don't give up..things will get better..good luck...