How to deal with my step mom?

Question

I'm a 14 year old guy and my parents split when i was like 3 or something. my dad had been with some bad girl friend like they jus use him for money and stuff. well my dads girl friend is pretty much like my step mom they been together for 2 years now. she from georgia and she is really emotional and has no job spends around $80 on smokes when dad is trying to stop. she takes everything the wrong way. and i know she loves me and my older sis but she is driving me away from my dad and its pissing me off cuz barely get to see him as is.i wont to tell my dad that she is keeping from him but i cant.

Answer 1

Yes you can....You can tell hem....You Must......You must sit your DAD DOWN, AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL.  It's OK to do this. your Dad will understand, and he will tell you that he does.

Also, make sure that you tell your Dad you Love Him, that you only want the best for him, and that you are worried about him in this situation. This will mean more to him than you will ever imagine.

It's OK for things to be far less than perfect. That's kinda what life is really SUPPOSED to be like. We just all have to face the tough stuff together and be honest with each other so we can figure it out....

I am the Father of 3 Grown Children, so i know what I'm talking about. Trust me on this one. Now go talk to your Dad.......

God Bless you......

Answer 2

I went through the same thing with my dad and his girlfriend you just have to suck it up and talk to your dad about how you feel. I did now me and my dad are closer than before.

Answer 3

You owe it to yourself and your dad to tell your dad how you feel.  Your relationship can't really go forward until you at least tell him.  And your relationship is worth it.