How to deal with my step-mother?

Question

Ok here's the scenario and at the same my own story. How to deal this one:

* they were secretly married through a judge

* they known each other for just 2 to 3 months and after that they got married

* my dad didn't court the woman at all, he just told every land that he inherited from his father, all of his wealth, and everything --it's like show and tell thingy

* My stepmother has a very bad manners when talking to people, like when she talks to the bank tellers, waiters or anyone. She feels like that she had the power and all that nothing can stop her, sumthing like that.

* She is a backstabber.

* When she came into our family, my dad no longer talks to me and I don't know why. As if like everything that I do, is not good for him. And now my dad wants me to live by my own, its like he doesn't love me anymore when he told me that.

* my step mother doesn't care about me. All she cares about is my father's money money money! you can see it clearly if you went to my house and the actual HER before and after they were married.

* Almost all of my father's property were named before her, not mine? what the f*cking h**l?!

* oh man, there are so many things that I wanted to add but I am so sleepy right now.. but the thing is, MY LIFE WAS SO NICE AND BEAUTIFUL BEFORE WHEN THEY WERE NOT MARRIED. now my life is so miserable!

HELP ME... WHAT WILL I DO NOW?

Answer 1

I finally gave up trying to have a relationship with each of my parents.

It's not my fault that I was a low priority for each of them.

I'm much happier now that I am concentrating on my family, my children, my life. My husband and children and I are so happy!  I made a point of marrying a really good person who was also a good friend.  My children will never have to go through the insecurity and doubt that I did.  

So you hang in there, when you are 18, you can create your own future and have a fabulous life.  There are opportunities, job-corp, the military, technical schools.  

I understand what you are going through and it isn't fair.  But you can get through it and be a better human being because of your experiences.

Good luck sweetie...

Answer 2

have you tried talkin to your dad ?

try and video all the times she mentions money or tell him how you feel

Answer 3

You need to talk to your Dad. If you can't do it face to face then write him a letter or something. You should feel you have gained a mother-not lost a father. Tell your dad exactly that.

Let your dad see that you can live independent and you don't rely on him. Trust me blood is thicker than water and when he sees his wife for what she really is (he will one day) he'll come running back to you.

What a horrible situation. Keep your chin up.  

Answer 4

get a job.. when ur 18 move out!

Answer 5

Get a job and move out

Prove you can get richer than them both

Dads will always come for their sons

He will eventually leave her these things never last

Its only a matter  of time when they break away.

Bid your time but be independent....nothing like doing things on your own