How to deal with problem?

Question

My big problem is when somebody teazing me or say something bad, I couldnt look in his/her eyes and said every word that I mean, or the simple way just effective answer or retort .

Answer 1

i have the same problem but i just do some thing to help me ignore them

Answer 2

I had the problem when I was younger. It was hard to come up with a comeback. But I had a lot of practice. I was picked on from 1st grade to 12th grade, after a while, you starting coming up with things to say.

What you are lacking is confidence. When you have that, you look that person in the eye and have a quick comeback from them.

If you are thinking something when they are picking on you, then say it! Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself!

I also would recommend listening to comedian. I listened a lot to George Carlin and had some funny comebacks from him!

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Get out your self confidence and just tell them they're rude right to their face and walk away.  Don't allow people to walk all over you.  

Answer 4

It's called confidence. Don't stoop to their level though. Tell them they are rude/immature and need to grow up and quit picking on people. if they tell you, "Oh yeah, and what are you going to do about it"?, tell them nothing. You will not satisfy them by getting as ridiculous as they are. It's obvious that these people have a serious problem if they are picking on you so understand that they are fighting their own battles. Always stand up for yourself coz not many people will do it for you. If people know they can walk all over you, then they will.  

Answer 5

i had the same problem too..........

i stopped feeling inferior ...............gathered some confidence.........

n yes( though it sounds silly) listening to witty humour n on the spot repartees does help.........

u shud know how to dance on the chance!

if u cant think of something , just dont care.......

avoid.....them.........u r worth much more than them.........

just try to love urself n b confident.......:):):)