I asked my OB tonight about a tubal ligation after I have this baby, and he goes "well, because of your age, I don't want to do that. We can, but before you make that decision, I want to try to interest you in something else, so here's a pamphlet". He gave me Mirena info. I don't want birth control. I don't want artificial hormones surging through my body. My husband and I are 100% sure that we are done having kids, we don't want anymore. I was hoping a tubal ligation would help us prevent another pregnancy, especially given my pregnancy history. This is my third pregnancy since my daughter was born in March 2007 (last two were miscarriages).
We feel very discriminated against because of our ages (22 and 28). He's finding it hard to get a referral from our family doctor to another doctor for a vasectomy, because we don't have 3 kids and he's not 30, and now we're dealing with this from the OB.
How can we deal with my OB and how can we convince him that a ligation is what I want?
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