How to deal with rude people in high school. do you hate high school???

Question

i am in high school (first year) and i HATE it. when i ate lunch, i walked to get to my table then accidently shoulder-bumped this girl who wouldn't move her seat in so its hard to get through & she just turned around gave me this "don't fking touch me betch and watch where you're going" kind of evil glare for 10 seconds. the same to this guy the other day, all they do is glare at me when it's THEIR fault that they won't push their seat in.

i also have scolosis and at the first day of school, the girl that sat near me said "i see 3 people hunching their back" or something. i have no friends in any classes because i hate people so much in my classes. i have 1 best friend but she isn't in any of my classes. people in high school do not care about other people, they only care about how they look and their reputation. i didn't have a problem with this in junior high.

i tried to make a conversation with new people at lunch today but i got blown off in less than 3 minutes without a "bye".

I HATE HIGH SCHOOL SO MUCH. how do i deal with this & those b*****s?

Answer 1

well if its anything like my school you have to either make abunch of friends or join a clique

Answer 2

Is their any groups you can join at your school, if you really like something and you can find other people that like that also it can really help you get along with people better. Don't worry about mean people everyone has to deal with them.

Answer 3

I didn't have the problem you are having, but just remember these "popular" girls are gonna get rrreeeaaallll fat after high school lol. It always happens!

Can you talk to your counselor and let them know what's going on? Let them know that it is affecting your school work and maybe they can get you into different classes, maybe even with your friend?

I didn't like a lot of people in high school because they were so immature- just like what you describe. I had a close group of friends and that was good enough for me. Since being out of school, I miss it SO much! Don't let these immature kids get you down, you're going to have stupid people like this throughout your whole life and you would be letting them "win" if you let it bother you. I know it's hard, but remind yourself when they do this that you're going to go much farther in life then them, and you are a much better person than them for not giving in to the immature behavior.

Don't let them ruin your high school years, you'll remember it forever. Freshman year is always rough, you'll be OK, keep your chin up! If you ever want to talk you can get a hold of me on here! Good luck babe ;)

Answer 4

I hated high school myself my school was the same way rude people everywhere thats high school I learned that the hard way you don't have to try so hard to make friends just be yourself confidence will take you along ways trust me I wasn't very social and I noticed that people came up to me on their own you jut have to remember that your going to school for a good education not a popularity contest things will get better over time school just started back take a deep breath and be yourself

Best of Luck!    

Answer 5

First thing, keep in mind that you are waaayyy better then these wannabes. Next, keep your head up. You have something they lack. . . common decency for others. The next time they are in your way, ask them to move, if they dont casually spill your drink on them and if they get mad just tell them that if they would have moved the whole problem could have been adverted.

Seriously though, some people get off on making others feel bad. Just know that these are the people that will be in jail in a couple of years while you are capitalizing. Dont let them get to you. Yes high school can be a though adjustment for EVERYONE, but eventually everyone gets what is coming to them. Try and find people who share your interests. Joing a few clubs and extracurricular activities, could introduce you to numerous amounts of people who are more like you, instead of the ones who are stuck up for no reason. Eventually, it will get easier though. High school has a funny way of panning its self out.  

Answer 6

hey, I'm going to start my first year at high school on tues.

n yes i am scared really scared.

but if i were u i would just go sit by myself and eat lunch, don't talk to people that are rude (don't even look at them or go near them, only if by force for a school project by your teacher)

Be nice to people who talk to u.

as for the rude people ignore em.

it works for me. don't let anyone get to you, keep your distance from those rude people.

Just because their rude they think for some reason they have the power and right to be disrespectful to anyone.

High school students (most) don't come to school to learn they come to be popular.

Join a club or sport u will make plenty of new friends their cuz they have the same interst as u do.

Don't let anyone push u around, just be cuz people r rude 2 u, let them know that the kind of person u r n what ur here for.

Last year some girls in my school were always on me, n 1 day when they were by themselves i went up 2 them n told them the kind of person i am. After then they stoped. Just be cuz i waz always nice to everyone and i waz smart they people think they could take advantage of me, which waz not right.

If the girl(s) r still rude 2 u then go 2 the guidence council he/she will give u some sugestions and help u with problems at school n home. Also if ur having a hard time making friends talk to the guidence council.

Hope i helped!!