How to do I deal with being nervous when meeting new girls?

Question

have been in serval relationships and I know how to be respectful of girls and how to talk to them withouth things being akward.I just have this issue where if I see a girl who I want to ask to spend time with me (I believe in spending time with a girl before asking them to be my girlfriend so I can get to know them on a more personal level) or who I want to talk to them and try to get their number and get to know them,I get extremely nervous,I can't bring myself to do it.I get this feeling where my heart races and the world moves slower when I see a girl that I want to talk to them and that makes me feel like I am not going to be able to talk.How do I overcome this? What are some good ways of keeping my mind at a state to where I can talk to girls without getting nervous?

Answer 1

Just be yourself--if they don't give you any information, they aren't worth your time...

Answer 2

Meeting people takes practice. It is like anything else. Imagine you want to go bungie jumping or parachuting. The first times, you will feel exactly the same way as you do when you meet a girl. Your heart would race, you would feel the same anxiety. But if you keep doing it, eventually it will get alot easier. The site below gives tips and suggestions for meeting new people. Try some of these ideas and practice, practice, practice. Soon it will get alot easier.

Have you heard of the "mystery method". Maybe you know about Mystery? He is famous from the TV show "pick-up artist". He created a method for meeting women that makes it almost a science. It is kind of expensive, but it could change your life. Have a look at the second link below about halfway down the page.

Answer 3

be yourself start off by saying how are you doing my name is such and such and yours

then say how old are you are you married if she say yes or no but i got a boyfriend you say i knew you were going to say that but it was nice to meet you anyway

but if she says no then you say well can you take my number and you put your number in her phone a say call me tonight