How to encounter humiliation and torture from one whom one doted on so much?

Question

For example, for on whom you spent time in educating, grooming, taking care during illness...

Answer 1

If I understand you correctly, you WANT to "encounter

humiliation and torture" from someone you showed a

lot of love to?

That's difficult if they sort of "worship" you, unless they

have had a secret fantasy to do kinky stuff to you.

It doesn't happen often, but I had it happen with a buddy

of mine from China. He was younger and he and I

traveled together, hiked, camped out, etc. so he thought

of me as his big brother.

But one night as we camped we were talking and he

confessed he had been in love with me for months.

So we ended up in a torrid love-affair, and one of his

favorite things was to tie me while I was asleep and

then tickle-torture me to near death.

It wasn't BAD humiliation, but he had me helpless,

laughing and begging like a little kid, and he definitely tortured me with severe tickling, but it was FUN!

I have no idea if that's what you meant, but that's

what I got from your question.

OK, you mean someone you cared for now

ABUSES you? WALK AWAY MAN! You did

your best, and if they treat you badly you have

every right to leave them alone!

Answer 2

Can you clarify the question?