How to escape ourself from thinking on someone who doesnt love us? should i avoid my self from seeing him?

Question

we have been as friend for almost 1 year, i realy feel comfortable making friend with him.lately, it become worse when my heart turn to love him as not as friend anymore, physically, we are not match to be a couple, i dont mind about that, but, the problem is, i know he does not love me. every time i see him, i try to ask my self to react as common friend, but i fail to do that. i feel jealous when i see him with other girls. what should i do? and we are classmate....

Answer 1

You need time and a little distance from the situation.  It does not mean you cannot be friends forever, just right now until you place it in your heart that incompatibility or differing temperaments or perhaps the lack of chemistry are just things one cannot control.  Perhaps the space you need can be achieved by proactively getting involved with other people, that way he is no longer the central fixation.  Go out for a sport, start to walk or play tennis.  Find a connection that is healthy like painting or playing a musical instrument.  I got lucky and picked up a flute playing late in life.  You want to stray away until you are okay with the idea of him finding happiness outside of your friendship.  Like I said you do not have to drop him as a friend but you do have to get on board with moving forward with your own life.  It may take some time but it would be better to still have a friend in the long run than be miserable for all the wrong reasons.

Answer 2

You must have escaped from school. Go back  as soon as possible and return to ask your question when you have a better understanding of English and how to spell the words you are using.