How to experiment date with someone my gender in a school full of homophobics?

Question

I've been thinking, and I don't know if I'm straight or bi. I want to see the truth by experiment dating with a girl but my school is made up of mostly homo phobics. I know this because my friend got made fun of a lot because shes bi.

I don't want to be made fun of for the rest of my school-life by doing this and my bi friend moved in case your wondering. I don't know if I should just wait until schools over [I'm in 7th grade] or if I should stick to being straight and force myself to stop wondering.

I really don't want to be made fun of for the rest of my life and but I wanna find out if I'm straight or bi. I know for sure I like guys but I just don't know about girls.

Answer 1

You could always try a long distance relationship or having one which you kept seperate from your school.

Answer 2

im in a very similar situation myself. i got to a catholic h.s. in a very catholic area and i hate it! the guys constantly harass a guy that is obviously g*y but is too scared to come out. many of the girls say its gross or a sin and are just generally negative about it.

i have not yet come out, although im planning to come out to my best friend in the next few days. im lucky bc im a junior and itll be 2 years until i can move to the nearest big city and openly be who i am.

my advice is to try and keep your experimentations to a minimum, or at least go somewhere where you know will be either more accepting or no one knows you that well (as in go to a cousin's house a few hours away and start a little something with one of their bi-curious friends haha)

most of all do not be deterred! your feelings right now are important, but be careful b/c you are so young. take it slow