How to fight back against a bully?

Question

There is a kid in my class, we're in 9th grade. He picks on me like hitting me, slapping me, trying to trip me and kicking me. He steals my stationary and throws it around and doesn't return it, he also takes it to use it without permission. He also takes my bag and kicks it around. He tries to hit me in the testicles several times but missed just. During class when he doesn't know answers he forces me to give them to him or else he'll hit me, I'm far weaker than he is and have no chance in fighting. I've thought about going to the co-ordinators (they're like in charge of your year level {year 9}) but if i do that he'll bully me out of school since he knows where my tuition is. He said he'll come and beat me, what should i do? I don't want to tell my parents but i want it to be resolved around school somehow.

Answer 1

Stand up for yourself. This may sound old and make you sigh, but bullies pick on people who they think won't fight back. Show him you can. Bullies are just cowards.

Answer 2

dude lol im in 9th grade too

ask ur parents to sign u up 4 like kung fu or something

Answer 3

One swift kick between the legs and then a few to the mid section ought to change his tune.

Answer 4

You really have to tell that to your parents and talk to your coordinators. I tried it and it worked.

Answer 5

I think you should talk to your parents about it, who can give you better advice than them?? and who can take the best steps to protect you??   You sound like a very nice young man who does not want problems and is trying to resolve the whole thing without getting anybody in trouble.

It is so sad that some people resort to bullying to cover up their lack of self confidence, they are already in big trouble.  Your parents have to intervene in your behalf because you are a minor, ultimately they might need to write a formal complaint against that bully and send to the school administrators to be able to stop him in his tracks !

Tell your parents how you feel do not be ashamed (the bully should) you are not the only one that is going through this now or that has gone through this in the past.  I was bullied when I was in HS never told my parents or anybody else causing me to become depressed.  You have to be assertive and fight back by reporting the facts to the respective authorities and most importantly do not be afraid of the consequences and take charge of your life.  You have a great future in front of you!!

PS At this moment I am filing a formal complaint in behalf of my daughter against 2 students one of them her "best friend" for playing malicious pranks against her to put her down and destroy her character

Answer 6

Go to your year level co-ordinator. She is trained to deal with this. Also get your parents involved. They can help you take out a restraining order if you have to. You do not have to put up with this