I recently got married to the one I love.... But I think he is smoking pot behind my back. I don't know for sure. He used to smoke it and has been clean for a year (so he says). I mean, I haven't seen it, or smelled it, or heard of anyone saying he does it. But the other day, I found something in the bathroom floor that smelled like marijuana. Also, on his brothers myspace page, (his 18 year old brother lives with us) his brother told a friend of theirs, that my husband wanted to know if he had any that he could get! That right there set me off....But how do I find out? I want him to admit it. Last year, when he was still doing it, and we would start a discussion about it, we would end up fighting all night. Also, the reason he quit, was that he was pulled over/went to jail for having it on him...he had my kids with him when he was arrested (Thank God they were asleep and didn't see that)....We have two children together, and I previously had told him I would leave him if I ever found out he was using it again. I don't need that in my life. I love him, but my children come first! How do I approach the subject? What do I say to him and how do I go about it? Any advice is welcome. Thanks.
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