How to forget a guy you really like ?

Question

I like him since 'i first met him! But, because , right now, I'm just 19 years old, and I even dont want to have a boy friend right now. But, he is very special to me! Today, I gave him a gift for fare well ( cuz he finished his studying in this school), but then, he sent it back to me through the International Student Program in my school! The problem is he hurt my feeling a lot ! And now, I try to forget him, but... I dont know how to do that ! Can you tell me, what should I do? Thanks

Answer 1

dont forget him just think of him as if he is someone u never know and u had to figure out whats in his mind

Answer 2

I can only say that time will heal the wound.  You will have to just keep doing whatever you do everyday and just live.  That was very rude of him to send it back to you.  I'd almost have the nerve to call him up and tell him it was just a friendly gesture and that is all.  That you did it as a friend. Anyway, that is me, I would not suggest you do that.  Time will pass and you will meet someone new and then he will just be a distant memory.  Good luck.

Answer 3

eat lots of chocolate and fried chicken...then you can worry about your weight

Answer 4

i know im younger then u but this is what my sister does.

when shes tryin to forget about a guy.

she goes clubbing and she hangs out with her friends.

and she also flirts alot!

she just does things to get him off her mind.

maybe u should try it.

i hope everything works out. : )

Answer 5

That would be hurtful. I feel your pain on that one. The only thing that can heal pain is time. Just stop all contact with him and give it time. Its the moving on process.If you have to cry, then cry. When you need to be alone, then be alone. Its all a part of the process. Good luck

Answer 6

probably you will never forget him if you really like him, try to get your mind busy with other things that are important and do somthing practical.

Answer 7

thats always gonna be the toughest thing to do.. and btw wow that was messed up but anyway.. doing things like this .. such as dwelling on the topic of "him" is only gonna make u think about him... i dont normally cliche but there are "millions of fish in the sea" ... millions and millions... juss go socialize... ull find someone

Answer 8

Geez I know exactly how you feel

and time is just not curing it...=/

One thing that has helped...

Ive got a job

and I am going to school

and it is definately helping big time!

Do things that will keep you busy continuisly

Answer 9

tell him that he hurt you. he may understand, dont forget him, he may also like u. if he dont like u. then you will forget him without any reason

Answer 10

well you better forget about him or he will hurt you feeling more.    He is an idiot.  how could he do this  to you <3  lol  

Answer 11

You feel hurt. That's okay. You are entitled to your feelings. It's what you do in reaction to your feelings that matters. So instead of trying to "get over it" just get through it...work your way through your feelings (don't suppress them ) until that feeling numbs and/or you grow bored feeling that way. Then move on. Try to avoid self destructive reactions like revenge, hate or burying your feelings so there is no closure or resolution (that'll make you bitter). Some of life's lessons can only be learned first hand...and after that you get better at taking risks...which you want to continue to do. If it helps, think of some reason that would explain his actions and choose to believe that versus an interpretation that hurts you...because that might be true and it would be a shame to hurt for nothing.

Another issue: you didn't say what the gift was...and that might be the problem here.

Be smart...get through it...stay above petty actions...and get back into the game...it's the only way to win.

Answer 12

huummm, i know he mean's alot to you but you got to think whats good for you and not him. try to think of things you hate about him and like we can't say to forget about him cause your not going to lol but only time can help you forget about him if he makes you really happy then stick to him if you want to be with him don't let go ask for a break or something let him know how you feel and if he love's you he'll understand. don't give up on what you really like talk to him express your self and work things out. and the gift he probobly gave it back cause he's hurt or something but give it a try and talk to him about how you feel it doesn't hurt to give it a try. hope everything works out well for you.

Answer 13

by returning your gift, it's a way of saying that he does not like you. He has understood that you are special to him when you gave him a gift but he has shown you that he does not consider you as special to him. If you really want to hear it from his mouth, then tell him about your feelings for him. otherwise you would be haunted by these feelings. Just be honest with him.