How to forget about stupid things?

Question

Whenever a friend does something stupid like talking behind you back or makes fun of you for no apperent reason , how do you forget i mean get that i dont give a' f**k' mentalitty. Dont tell me that i should get new friends cause i just take things a bit too serious and i think their jokes just get stuck in my head.

Answer 1

Say to yourself "what other people say about me, think about me, is none of my business"

Answer 2

I have the same problem,maybe you should focus yourself on more important thing or when you are angry about something stupid do something you like,call a friend...

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Answer 3

First off, let your friend understand that you don't appreciate what he/she is doing.  Then examine whether what he/she is saying is true and then correct it in yourself.  If it is not true, then put up safeguards for yourself so that it will never be true.  Consider your self worth and value in the sight of God and attempt to use everything (even negativity) to better yourself.  Also, treat your friend better than he/she is treating you and be the bigger person... that will help you make the stupid issues to be non-issues.

Answer 4

Think about someone who has really big problems, like starving children in Bolivia, and all your little problems will seem insignificant, because they are.