I love my husband.
However it is so difficult to get along with my step daughter.
My husband and his daughter (16) had been act like a partners so long time.
You can see in some movie -single father and the kid act like a his partner.
It was so big pain to me. They never understand my point about 2 years.
My husband almost admire the daughter and she got over confident .
I did not want take this deal ,but I loved him and he said that "I gave my 10 years to her .I want be happy with you. We don't have to her in here all the time".
Then I agreed to get marriage with him.
But I made a condition. We can have his daughter 50% 0f the year .
She can stay with mother other 50%.
However she did big fight with own mother and staying with us last 1 year .
It is so hard to me.
She made all kind of problems ..steal my money and I asked question then she said "Are you saying I did it!!!!"
She did physical fight with her best girl friend ,got suspended for 1week.
She suspended with other things,too.
We got phone call form Police twice last one year. And so many other problems.
Every time she makes some problem, I am the one got yelled form my husband.
Because he never scold to her enough. He said he did but she keep making problems to me means the way he talks is not working.
Basically he is too nice to her.
He has history his oldest daughter never talked with him more than 10 years because he got mad to her after he divorce.
Of cause I ask him that,You have to teach her to became a nice adult . But I am the one always got his frustration.
She is doing good on her high school score.
He just gave GREAT praise. It makes her more over confident.
I think If your daughters score is good at school, but her character is not nice, You have to work on it.
I become really dislike her.
I try so hard try to nice to her as a step mother.
Last week my husband got bad result of heart check.
I really want get rid of stress form him. I know he want be happy with his daughter I mean he like to be happy 3 of us as a family.
I know I have to love her like a own daughter or try to be nice friend.
But my emotion doesn't go that way.
In honestly I really dislike her.
I am ashamed of it.
But I can't help.
Please help me how to forget and forgive ?
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