How to gain confidence??

Question

How to gain confidence??

Answer 1

Confidence is mostly a results of competence in something, when you try hard at something and achieve great results, you feel more confident about it. So you might feel unconfident about riding a bike the first time, but after serveral months or years you feel confident about riding a bike. This is the same for any area of your life. So if you feel unconfident, learn a new skill and become competent at it, then you will feel more confident about it.

If its social, then want people who are good socially, what is it they do you don't, can you model them, can you do something similar. If you're not good at a sport, can you practice more, can you get someone to help train you. Just work hard at improving your skills and confidence will follow.  

Answer 2

Just visit your local Wall mart and ask for confidence.Joking.

Seriously you can get it by winning.Improve your weaknesses by facing your fears and build your strenghts by doing what you do best.

If you want to learn what your strenghts are visit the site bellow.They have very accurate personality tests.Speaking from personal experience.

http://www.blogthings.com

Answer 3

Here are 2 links to info on building confidence.  Hope they help!

http://www.more-selfesteem.com/confidenc...

http://www.communicationconfidence.com/

Remember there is only one you in the entire world.  There are zillions and zillions of people on earth and only one you.  That alone is a reason to believe in yourself and I hope it helps you feel empowered.

Answer 4

Depends on what you're afraid of. You need to practice facing those fears.

Answer 5

Set some goals and then accomplish them. Go around the house and fix stuff. Help others.  

Answer 6

do it urself

Answer 7

Get a gun.

Answer 8

you just have to do it, there is no explaining how just be determined to be more confident and when you see an opportunity to show off how confident you are go for it

Answer 9

Every morning before work/school/whatever, look in the mirror, tell your self five positive things you like about yourself.

Like:

My smile is amazing

My hair is rocking today

I have great taste in clothes

My music choice is amazing too

I know how to pick the perfect friends.

Answer 10

feel sure about yourself