How to get anger out ?Does any girl respect a guy if he treats her really nice ?

Question

I'm sick of being a nice guy.Doing everything for a girl when she doesn't care

and then she go back to her ex who hits her.I'm mad at myself for being always good person and i'm tired of everything and i feel like i need to get anger out of me.What to do cuz its my first time felling ****** up like this.

Answer 1

Yes you are right, its not nice what she do but be good but hard too so all will be fine.

Answer 2

hmmm, i dont think you should be nice to any girl and expect something in return, just be careful with your heart and never do EVERYTHING for anybody, think about yourself and your own feelings! :] cheer up buttercup

Answer 3

what?????????????? You are sick of being nice???????????/

You are actually sick..

Answer 4

hit the gym!

that's what I do.

It sure gives yah the drive to push dem  heavy weights

Answer 5

I KNOW I HAVE THE SAME PROBLE BUT I WHANT TO KNOW THE F***D UP THRUTH ITS THAT GIRLS TALK SH*T ABOUT GUYS LIKE HES SUCK A b*****d AND STUFF BUT THEY LIKE THAT **** I KNOW FRO EXPERINCE

I WHENT WHITH A GIRL AND SHE GAVE HER EX THAT HAD SED TO HER FACE THAT HE DIRENT LIKE HER SHE GAVE HIM A BJ AND I TREADED HER ALL GOOD AND **** I HARLY EVER GOT A BJ SO THAT ****** SUCKE  

Answer 6

1.) Go to the gym and hit the heavy bag and the speed bag.

2.) That's a sucker play

3.) Stop dating women who display these types of personality traits beforehand...and they do!

Answer 7

sweetie this girl sounds like she has some issues/ she is involved in a circle of domestic violence, she's ill and in more trouble. cause the dude will never stop it will only get worse. now being a nice guy is real s**y with a girl with some class. dont give up and dont let women take kindness for a weakness. let them chase u a little. ok

Answer 8

Well to get the anger out maybe you can go to the gym, or take kick-boxing or something.

Secondly don't think that all girls are like that, maybe you just need to have a better judgement of the girls you date. Not all girls are willing to be with a guy that hits them, and many are willing to be with a sweet guy... so don't change >_<

Answer 9

Well I'm sorry that you have been in that situation. Only a stupid girl with no respect for herself would go back to an ex that likes to hit her. But you have to understand that it happens. Don't stop being a nice guy. Real women love a nice guy. But it never hurts to have a little edge. Like practice saying the word NO in a mirror. And to let out your anger I think you should beat the c**p out of a pillow or a cushion or something. Just no walls or anything. It just makes you look stupid. But seriously, PLEASE don't stop being a nice guy. One day you will find some one who has been dying to meet a guy like you.

Answer 10

You shouldn't be sick of being a nice guy, you should be sick of falling for jerks.

When you are a little older, you will realise that every woman worth spending your life with will only want nice guys.

Find a girl worthy of your treatment, that is a girl who treats you nicely as well.

Answer 11

No dont change however much you want to. Most girls want that nice and want to feel loved. At the moment you cant see that but the thing is that what every girl wants. You ex wasnt for you I mean for her to do that to you says everything... Just wait that girl will come and will love you for you and not someone else you could never be. Dont change yourself just wait you will see there is that someone for you..... Just you

Answer 12

Welcome to my world bro. Here is what I do and have done. 1. Music. Whatever music you like the most, put it on and just slip away. Let it entrance you so you go past the conscious realm and are focusing on nothing but the sounds. I call it, "Cognitive Dissonance" The second thing I did was become callused. It sounds awful to say, I know, but sometimes you gotta tell yourself "The world is motivated by self." and because of that people do what they want to do for themselves except for the few couples out there that really love each other then they are willing to sacrifice everything for each other. Next, stop helping her. If you keep telling her not to go back, (even if you aren't trying to get with her) she obviously really doesn't care she just wants someone to vent to. Man, I wish nice guys had a place in this world but we just get run over and over again. I too am sick of it.

Answer 13

I respect my boyfriend, he's so kind to me and is always doing ridiculously sweet things. I appreciate every little thing he's ever done for me and I tell him.

Nice guys have to find the right guy, find a girl that truly appreciates everything you do for her. It's just so wrong if she doesnt. It's not your fault for being a nice guy. It's her problem if she wants to be treated like dirt, you deserve someone that will love you and be happy with everything you do for her.

G'luck!