How to get back a close friend??

Question

A couple of weeks ago i texted my friend on my boyfriends phone testing her and saying stuff i knew i shouldn't have said and then she figured out it was me and since then she like barley talks to me and iv asked her if shes still mad at me and she says shes not. i just want things to be like they use to be.. anything i can say or do to help our friendship??? thanks

Answer 1

well i mean it culd b tht shes mad @ u 4 whtevr u did but i mean we all make mistakes but i mean u also hav 2 realize frnds come and go and u also make new frnds. if shes acting different around u and u really want 2 b close 2 her still then u should jst ask her y she is acting different around u and y u guys r not as close.  

Answer 2

Probably not.  You played a hurtful, manipulative game with a friend and you might have lost her as a friend.  

Just remember to always treat people the way you would like to be treated.  Don't talk behind their back, don't play hurtful tricks on them.

I hope she forgives you for your sake.  Give her room and try approaching her in another week or so.  If she doesn't forgive you, you have no one to blame but yourself.

Good luck!

Answer 3

i bet she's kinda mad but if she's a really close friend, she should forgive you over time.  

Answer 4

Well, I think you've figured out that it was probably not the brightest thing you could have done, haven't you?  Sometimes you just have to wait for your friend to forgive you, build a bridge and get over it.

Sometimes things never go back to how they used to be .... and if that's the case, you'll have learned a valuable lesson in friendship - never test a friend, because you might become the ex-friend.

Good luck - hopefully she will forgive you.

Answer 5

no i would be mad no matter what you say  

Answer 6

The best thing to do to win back a friendship is to say that your sorry and that is there anything that you can do to make it up to her hope that i helped

Answer 7

that was a very mean and shallow thing to do. if you talk to her before its too late, there is a possibility that you will get back friends with her. However you can try to gain her back as a friend by talking to her and showing her how much you are sorry.

   If she does not want to know,then i am afraid that you have brought this all on yourself.

   good luck!