How to get back at my brother at school?

Question

My brother got held back in the 4th grade so now we are in the same grade and it's horrible... He Tries to act cool by saying mean things and being mean to me in front of his friends. He doesn't have that many friends and everyone that knows him thinks he is immature and a wannabe...What can I do to get back at him???

Answer 1

Are you a fourth grader??

Why don't you just tell everyone he use to pee the bed! ha ha  

Answer 2

Just try to show how much more mature you are than him by not letting his behavior get to you. You sound smart just act like you know you should.

Answer 3

you try to get back at him your no better than him. you will grow up one day a realize how trivial this is. life is so much bigger than all this, i honestly hope you understand what i mean and tkae it into account as you get older. yeah it sucks now and u want an answer or a resolution now but that isnt going to happen im 26 my brother is 28 and my sister is 30, we still pick on eachother, more verbal commentsd than anything, but i still get teased about my relationships, job, education path, u name it. i gained just a dat bit of weight, and they pick on me because ive alwys been the smallest person i our family. trust me, it wont end, it will change and get better and you wil laugh along too, those friends, changes are you wont hang around tehm for hte rest of your life so they wont be hanging that stuff over your head, but if so then hey u got a lot of good memories to laugh about when your older. trust me there are far more fun things to dwell on that this, your stilll young enjoy your youth, go outside, start a new hobby, tel your parents u woudl like to discuss this with them, chances are they will be in such awe that you are taking the highroad that they will disappline him and it will eventually stop. please trust me on this one, u dont want to look back on this think woe iw as immature.  

Answer 4

Tell people he poo'd himself at home or something.

Answer 5

You said that the people who knows him find him immature and a wannabe so why do you have to get back at him... Find a picture that will embarrass him (like his first bath) make a copy and show his friends. Or any other pic that he would be ashamed of. when he picks on you bring up how he failed 4th grade.  

Answer 6

The best way to get back at him is to love him. He is your brother, I have my boys bickering back and forth every day and it breaks my heart. Your brothers, blood is thicker than water, when he acts out ignore him, and move on. He will get tired of wasting his breath. He is immature and a wannabe, ok. Now that you know that is that who you want to be, NO, two wrongs don't make a right. Plus, it would break your mothers heart to see you kids arguing. I know it does to me :(

Answer 7

break the kids ***

Answer 8

Doesn't sound like you need to get back at him.  His friends think he's immature so you've gotten him back already.  They'll probably think you're immature if you do something to him.

Answer 9

Be nice....that's it. He is trying to bully you by making you feel belittled. Has he always done this? If so, then he is just a brat and you will have to hold your head high and put him on ignore. If you don't you may end up with the same reputation.

If this is a relatively new behavior? I would think this is his way of hiding his embarressment of being put in the same grade as little sister. This is a good lesson in life for you. You will always have your wannabes, immature, hateful men and women in your work place, or anywhere. You need to make wise decisions now as this will help shape how you behave in your future

Answer 10

embarrass him in front of his friends