How to get confidence????

Question

okay like most 15 yr olds I have insecurities. especially if you go to a highschool like mine where ppl (boys and girls) cut each other down constantly. ppl say i'm pretty but i think i'm just average nothing special and i want a boyfriend. they say boys like confidence but how can you get confidence when you don't think your that pretty and no boy has ever done a double take when you walk by? and i know boys can see through fake confidence so that's not an option. what to do?????

Answer 1

Focus on strengths not weaknesses. Positivity not negativity.

Google a short piece called Desiderata. I am certain the answers you seek for these issues are in it and so much more. Best wishes. UK

Answer 2

Confidence is what you make it. Be more humble and less superficial. If a boy doesn't say your cute, pretty or any other adjective, should you really care? It's better than being called ugly and such, real confidence breakers. Just be happy being YOU. That would impress more people than you know. Look in the mirror and honestly look at yourself for who you are. Try not to think about the way society wants you to be or whats HOT at the moment. Your too young to be stressing boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. Enjoy being a teenager cuz once its gone, its gone. Boyfriends come and go, and you may have many in your lifetime for many different reasons. All you need to do is have fun and enjoy your life. It's too short to be quizzically stuff on what others think of you, unless your running for President :).

Answer 3

Nowadays guys only do double takes if they see a girl half naked.You dont want that kind of double look. You will get a lot of guys by being pretty and you need ways of boosting your self esteem. Try thinking about all the good qualities that you have and you will realize that its not only your beauty but also the person that YOU are.GL.