How to get my bf to hold my hand...?

Question

Ive been going out with my bf for maybe about 2 months now. We haven't kissed yet, which i don't mind, but he has put his arm around me at the movies. I would love for him to hold my hand... but how can i give him the message for him to hold my hand? should I just do it or should i wait for him to do it?

[and if I should do it how should i do it?]

Please help,

Thanks in advance!

Answer 1

Just do it. Maybe hes nervous.

Just pick it up.

If your in the movie, just grab it and keep watching the movie.

Dont make a big deal about it or it might freak him out even more.

Answer 2

How about you reaching for his hand and starting it. Someone always has to start he might just be shy and it might just take you to begin something  here.

Answer 3

Just ask him straight out, can you hold my hand?  If he doesn't want to he will let you know.  

Answer 4

Just go for it! When it's quiet and ya'll aren't saying anything, just reach over and grab his hand. He's probably nervous and wants you to make the first move.

Answer 5

all you have to say is "HOLD MY HAND OR ITS OVER"

Answer 6

If I were you, I would just come right out and ask him to. Let him know that you want to hold his hand and he to hold yours, every once in a while.

Answer 7

awww thats so cute!! well just one time when you guys are walking or maybe sitting on a couch together or something, maybe watchig a movie reach over and touch the top o his hand and then just kinda like hold onto his hand and then you can even play with his fingers a little so that next tiem he'll know how much closer it feels to hold hands with you.  its not a big deal so dont be nervous about it :)

anywyay, good luck, and dont forget, just go for it!!!! :p

Answer 8

LoL. I had that same question when I went out with my first boyfriend. It's better to just take action instead of waiting for the guy. Don't make a big deal outta it. Just like when you're walking somewhere casually grab his hand and hold on to it.

After the first time or two he'll start doing it himself whenever you guys are with each other :D

Good luck ^^

Answer 9

You can really just grab his hand.  I'm sure he won't pull it back.  Or while you guys are sitting together, start rubbing his palm or back of his hand.  He'll get the hint.

Answer 10

just tell hm that you would like it if he held your hand, and he should be more than happy to do so

Answer 11

just grab his hand in a sweet way, then he'll get it

Answer 12

just grab his hand!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 13

hey there darling..well this is a very good question

If you want him to hold your hand just reach your hand down beside his and kinda give him a a nuge like maybe on the arm and show him your hand and just place your hand in his and kinda juss squezze it=) hope this helps you

Answer 14

just hold his hand!! dont be afraid, just go for it...when you do everything will feel right! & maybe he'll kiss you!

Answer 15

Just grab his hands.

Answer 16

when your sitting with him just lightly touch his hand then start playing with his fingers. I know it sounds childish but it works depending on the guy

Answer 17

The general consensus it to just grab his hand. However, I know that I would be to shy to do that. Instead, just brush over his hand (this works best if you are walking somewhere) a couple times and that will usually give him a clue. If you are at the movies or somewhere similar, just lay your arm on his arm rest. My boyfriend figured that one out REALLY fast. :) Later he told me he just wanted to use his arm rest. I hope this helps!