How to get my boyfriend back if he doesnt want to have anything to do with me

Question

i been dating this boy for 3 months now, he doesnt call i have to ask him to come over sometimes he says hes coming and then dont come , and other times he says hes busy, and sometimes he come.. he left his clothing in my room so no guy would come in my room, he lies says that he is one place but be another, but all in all he want the guys outside to think that im his shorty and dont want no one to mess with me.. all of a sudden he had a nerve to say he didnt like me so i kicked him out of my house i havent call in 5 weeks now.. i miss him and want him back what should i do to get him back

Answer 1

idk, but when you figure it out let me know.

Answer 2

be honest with yourself...why would you want someone who doesn't want you?

Answer 3

Since you have been with your boyfriend for 3 months, you have not throughly understand his behaviour and feelings. He must be feeling extremely hurt for being chased out or locked out of your house by your action. If you want him back then go after your boyfriend  immediately and show your affections.

Answer 4

Let's see, he lies to you promises things and doesn't come through and you want to be with him WHY??? He obviously doesn't respect you, it's unlikely he even cares for you. He is an immatutre jerk. Kick him to the curb and find a nice guy that does what he says. This guy is a phony. The idea of leaving his clothes in your room so no other guys come into your room. perhaps he should pee at the door way like a dog marking his territory.You don't belong to him.  

Answer 5

Why do you want him back? He didn't care enough about your feelings to be honest with you when he said he would come over, he acted possessively and didn't want anyone else to have you even though he didn't want you, and in the five weeks since you kicked him out, he hasn't apologized or tried to get you back. He doesn't love you. If you get him back, things will be exactly the way they were before, and he'll know that he can walk all over you.

Answer 6

YOU HAD HIM FOR 3MONTHS, IF HE DOESN'T CALL YOU AND COMES OVER ONLY SOMETIMES, AND IS ALWAYS TO BUSY FOR YOU , THOSE ARE ALL SIGNS OF HIM NO LONGER HAVING INTEREST IN YOU, GIVE UP NOW SO YOU WON'T SEEM DESPERATE, HE'S TOTALLY PLAYING YOU AND HE JUST HONESTLY TOLD YOU HE DIDN'T LIKE YOU, YOU SHOULD RESPECT HIM AND LEAVE HIM ALONE

Answer 7

get another boyfriend.  Guys always seem to want you when you have someone else.

Answer 8

Find someone else who is actually worth the air that he breathes. There's plenty other guys out there!

Answer 9

You should just leave it be. Some things just aren't meant to be.

Answer 10

Leave a voicemail telling him you miss him and want him back. You bought him a present to show how sorry you are for being so bad to him.  Maybe offer a 3some with that friend of yours he was always hitting on.

You asked how to get him back and I answered.

Answer 11

Ok I don't get it he said he doesn't like you ....WHY would you want him back you said nothing Positive about him. Find a MUCH better guy who wants and won't play head games with you !

Answer 12

I agreed wt most of d other responses. I had same experience as urs. The only thing different is, I have been wt him for 3 years. Believe me, he is not worth of u and ur love. Find urself another guy. There are many more good guys out there for u. Life is too short. Live it and enjoy it. Dont be miserable over a guy. U wont miss him if u have someone else. Go for it girl!