How to get my ex back?

Question

My ex dumped me on Sunday, and I really wasn't ready to break up. I knew it was a possibility, because we had been on a break for a week at that point. But we talked the night before, and it was just like old times. We laughed and had a nice convo. We even had made plans for a movie that Monday. But he dumped me, so that didn't happen.

I asked him for the past few days why, and he gave me different reasons, such as: he wants to be alone so he can focus on his photography (which is his job), he doesn't like having to talk on the phone every night, he's sick of spending all his money on gas to come see me and he'd go broke. I tried to think of ways we could still be together, but he kept shooting my ideas down. My last question to him was "Do you think we'll ever be together again?" And he said yes. So what do you think? Do I just give it time, maybe 4 months, and see where he is in life at that point? Or should I just move on? We'd been together for 2 months, btw.

Answer 1

just be friends and move on....

Answer 2

I say just let things go with the flow for now. he needs time for himself. i would stop asking him questions, hes going to get more stressed out. just give him his space and he will come back. trust me it happened with me.but only move on if you are ready and ur heart is ready.  

Answer 3

You need to move on, instead of thinking of 100 ways to get him back!

HE DUMPED YOU! where is your prige?

Answer 4

Move on if anything is meant to happen with him itll happen..Im sure he can find you if he ever wants to later

Answer 5

I went psycho and call or text my gf when we broke up - her friends called me 'Ninja Boyfriend' :) I didn't realize I was being such an idiot after we broke up.

And even if there was no chance we could get back together, atleast I tried.

I was torn about whether I should get back with her, or just leave it alone. she did dump me, and I was hartbroken, but I wanted to show her I could be THAT guy for her