How to get my filipina gf to talk about s*x?/ If you are a pinay please answer?

Question

well this how this goes am african american am from usa my gf is from the philippines and we have a long distance relationship so far we have kept things honest and trust worthy we been together 6 months and i plan on seeing her in the summer of 09 she really a sweet woman that can make you laugh and its fun to talk to her online but however when i get on the topic about s*x she get really shy and won't talk about it this is nothing new to me because from my experience with most filipina women they are generally shy but i was wondering is there a way to persuade her to have a conversation about s*x? i would love for filipina women to answer this question

Answer 1

I'm not filipina but does it really matter what race I am?

Some women are comfortable with that topic, however some are not.

She's not ready to talk about it yet, so stop bringing it up.

When she is ready, then she is.  Don't pressure her.

Answer 2

make sure shes not a rapist or like a 70 year old man looking for a little boy

Answer 3

maybe not everyone wants to give it all away. if she doesn't want to talk about it, don't force her or you will lose her.

cultures are different between the usa and philippines, and values are different from woman to woman. maybe she believes in waiting until marriage to have s*x.

Answer 4

Ask her if she every watch porno movie. if she answer yes, say would she like to do it?

Answer 5

just ask her how much she charges

Answer 6

Heey. I'm not a pinoy chick.. but I date a phils guy :)

& he's seriously not like your girlfriend at all. Actually, the complete opposite. So maybe she's used to the kind of guys who come on too strong & she doesn't like it. Thats probs why shes going for an american boiii. soo just let her know that you really care for her (ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT) and be very kind and let her know that she can trust you with anything. then she will become more comfortable around you and be more willing to talk about.. urm.. s*x. Oh and she doesn't want some s*x crazed guy. Try to be somewhat a classy guy.

Good luck :)

Answer 7

yea right..i was on the long distance relationship too and im filipina its just that we are conservative and i really felt scared about that wen my bf ask me about s*x and i dont like it...it takes time just be patient..my bf waited for one year before we talk things like that..