My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. We had the usual first year arguments and all that. But the one thing that keeps popping up is that he still acts like a bachelor. He goes through these cycles. He'll be really sweet, buy me flowers, clean the apartment while I'm out on a Sunday or something like that and then he'll go weeks all but ignoring me.
He hates when I call him or he calls me during the day to see how he is or just say hello.
He hated that I ask where he's going when he goes out (not keeping tabs, I'm just honestly curious). And I know I'm not his mother or anything of that sort, but we don't even do any of the little things that couples do, like have a romantic dinner or something. He comes home from work, eats his dinner and then sits in front of the TV or goes out on the porch and talks on the phone to his friends and it'll go on until I go to sleep.
I understand guys need space, but he'll have a guy's night once a month and stay out until 3 or 4 in the morning.
Any suggestions? Am I just overacting?
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