How to get out an abusive relationship

Question

how to walk away? if i was to then i could get hurt badly.

Answer 1

Find a women's shelter, call them and ask for help-they will hide you.

Or ask a friend that he doesn't know to take you in until you can move to a new town.

Good luck-making up your mind to leave is the first and hardest step!

Answer 2

go somewhere and don't turn back!!!! if you go back then that's when you could get HURT....make a police report with a restraining order.  you can't talk to an insane person it's like talking to a brick wall or putting fuel on fire

Answer 3

There are women's shelters in almost every area and you need to contact one of them right away.  You say you could get hurt badly if you try to leave.........you're getting hurt by staying and will possibly end up dead!  There's lots of help and resources out there to assist you, but they can't help you if you don't ask!  If possible, you need to leave the area completely.  Restraining orders really aren't worth the paper they are written on as abusers don't respect the law any more than they respect the women they abuse.  Don't give him any more chances to lash out at you and above all, please remember that it's not your fault!

Answer 4

It depends, I can help you better if you give more details!

Answer 5

NO U PACK YOUR BAG N U LEAVE WHEN HIS GONE,,U GO STRIGHT TO A POLICE STATIION N U TELL THEM YOUR PROB,,THEY CAN GET U IN A SAFE HOUSE JUST FOR GIRLS LIKE YOU,,THEY WILL COUNCEL YOU N HELP U GET A JOB N HE WILL NOT NO WERE YOU R AT ..PEACE

Answer 6

run away

Answer 7

O.K. you have not said exactly what the abuse is , but whether physical or verbal , it is abuse , verbal is a bit different , in that the abuse is not immediate danger , but physical , you need to act fast , when someone is battering you , you just don't know at what point it is going to escalate , a slapper , can turn into a puncher ,  without warning , there is help 24/7 , if you need to , go without anything , the abuse hotline , will help you where ever you are , you have not said if this is a husband , or if you have childern , it doesn't matter , wait until he is not home if you can , like when he is gone to work , then you can take a few things , if you are in immediate danger just get away , get to any phone such as neighbor , service station , store , call 1-800-799-7233 , they will help you , I know you are scared , but they will keep you in a safe place , & if you have childern they will help with the childern also , if you don't walk away you may get hurt worse , go now while you can . I wish you well.