How to get over a best friend?

Question

One of my best friends and i recently decided to not be friends anymore. he is a two face and talks **** behind my back. but then again sometimes he is the nicest guy in the world to me. ive tried to make it work but he keeps lying to me. my other friend hates him and wants me to ditch him and i want to but i cant. he and i have been through so much and we were always friends. ive stopped talking to him but i feel so miserable and lonely without him. i feel like **** and i dont want to. half of me wants to be his friend and half of me wants to forget about him. it seems simple but its hela hard to get over it cuz we was so close man. i really need to let him go. how do i do it?

Answer 1

in due time, you can't get over the friend with the snap of your fingers, just make some new friends, new experiences with new people will help

Answer 2

was this your "boy"friend

Answer 3

u need to talk to him and tell him what u hate about him.

Answer 4

Find a new friend. Someone With the same common interests, but wont stab your back !

But if you really want your old bestie back, talk it out to him. Say, look i dont apreciate this and in order for us to be friends, its gotta stop!

Answer 5

Losing a best friend like this is like dealing with his death. It's going to be painful -- for a long time. You need to keep yourself busy (I assume you're a teenager)--now school is starting and you'll be meeting new and different people. Those will not ever take his place, but new friends may dull a pain.

This is how you ought to think about this--and I know it sounds cliché--your friendship with him, however long, was meant to last that long. In the future, if he decides to contact you, then fine--but if not, let him go.

Much easier said than done.

Answer 6

be friends with him from a distance. don't share anything personal, but it's ok to hang out with him, if you still want to sort of be friends. I know it's hard, but sometimes you just have to make a concentrated effort and cut your losses. Good luck.