How to get over a crush?

Question

I had a crush on this guy like a year ago and I never fully got over him but I don't know if I still really like him cuz i haven't seen him in sooo long. Recently my friend had told me that last year when me and him were still hanging out he told my friend that he liked me. Between then and now I kinda told myself that I didn't like him because my friend waited a year to tell me this! This all makes me wonder if I like him still or not - I haven't really moved on but I don't think I have any feelings left for him. I constantly wonder about what could have been if I knew he liked me (cuz btw im really desperate if you cant tell haha) and I feel liked I missed out on such a great opportunity. I keep having these dreams with him in them also. I am so confused by it all. What do I do????

Answer 1

Find someone else, but don't find a crush. Find dates and lots of them. You'll eventually find someone where you both connect with each other.

Answer 2

You never know until you try.

If there is an actual possibility that you will end up with him then go for it!

If he has a girlfriend or isn't interested in you anymore, then you should move on and forget him. Start looking at other guys and meeting other guys, you'll find someone else in no time.

If he's available, then absolutely go for it! If you don't you'll always end up wondering "What if we...".

Good luck!