How to get over an ended relationship that lasted for a year and a half?

Question

there is no way to come back together,,

how to deal with remembering our memories together?

i want to get over it, please help me,, i need some advice & support

Answer 1

it is VERY hard no doubt about it.

you have to want to get over them and move on.

the best thing is to write down all of your memories that you can think of the good and the bad. get all of the pictures that have the two of you together. any clothes or items that they may have left for you.

put them all in a box and "bury" it under your bed or in the back of your closet.

Write a letter to them explaining your feelings and how hurt you are and how much you want to get over them. Put this letter on top of all of the items and close the lid.

that is what i did when i wanted to get over my ex. it work cuz every time that things got hard and I wanted him in my life again I opened the box and read that letter that i wrote to him and remember how much i wanted to get over him....I would rebury the box.

remember each day is a new day...the problems and issues that you had the day before do not follow you to this new day...unless you let it.

and its okay to cry....its okay to break down every now and then....your heart hurts..... I get it

but if you can't get over him and pick yourself up....He is winning  

Answer 2

its very hard in the intial becoz u would  be addicted with that person

but u shuld make urself busy in some other things..meet newpeople,initialy u wont feel like doing all these things but u have to try..but once u are involved in some other works u wont think abt taht person ..it wil take 2 months for u to get rid from ur past

Answer 3

i know it's so hard, but you need to think optimistically. you need to think, "if i can have this long, memorable relationship with someone, i can definitely have it with someone else." and i am so sorry, but there is no way to get rid of the memories. with time, you will make new ones, and of course, still have the old ones. when you start thinking about them, try to think about something else. meet knew people, or be single for a while and keep yourself busy with friends and family. cherish them because they will give you so much support and love and they will help you sooo much. and it's not like you guys were going to get married, right? a break-up had to happen sometime, right? and if she hurt you, try to think, "why would i want to be with someone who could ever do that?" i know this is all so hard and cliche, but you have to try. it's the only way, in my opinion. i'm so sorry to be so cheesy, but i hope this helps somehow. good luck and i wish you all of the happiness you could possibly have. i hope you meet someone new, who you will have better memories with and who will make you so happy. good luck. :)