How to get over commitment issues?

Question

I would love to get into a relationship not necessarily to end up with the person... but there's no harm in trying right... I'm a really laid back girl who loves her sport doesn't mind a cold jack and coke every now and then and loves to just hang with the guys... then why do I have commitment issues... I am fine around a guy and I might even think I like him until he says he likes me then I pick up all these flaws and get REALLY uncomfortable around him... every time... HELP!

Answer 1

do you get so uncomfortable to the point were you stop hanging out with him?

if not then stick around anyway if you force yourself maybe you could end up in a relationship and don't be scared i was the same way in middle school i saw all my friends get attached and have bf's and its not like i was never offered to "go out", you know, i just didn't want all the drama that came with it. so i understand completely

just stick it out and if you ever catch yourself co*ck blocking yourself then stop lol i know it sounds simple and trust me it is lol i bet i no time you'll be shacked up with lil kids runnin round :]