How to get over it.....?

Question

I thought that finally that a guy had liked me. But to make a long story short, after using me, he asked out one of my friends. And because of that I have felt very depressed about it. Like I will see him flirting with other girls, and I then feel like crying. And I see all these other girls who are sooo much more prettier than I am, and it makes me feel like crud. Like no one will ever want to go out with me. I just feel so ugly.This is my first heartbreak. What can I do to feel better.

Answer 1

Use the experience to grow stronger and understand relationship better.  

Just remember that he will probably do the same thing to those girls that he did to u and know that they will get a heartbreak aswell...never make urself feel like ur alone...ur never alone and theirs always someone going threw the same problem.

Build from it and u will feel better in the end.

Answer 2

Know that it's not the end of your love life, or your life. it's not over until the end. if it isn't the end, it's not over. You'll have many heartbreaks, and you should use this to empower you and take it as a learning experinece. Thanks to that jack@SS

Answer 3

the same thing happened to me when i was younger. i talked to another one of my friends and ate a lot of chocolate and spent a few days feeling sorry for myself and then thought that it was his loss not mine and you will get over it.

good luck hun =]

Answer 4

It takes time. If you want to forget about him, try not to look at him or think about him in a positive/romantic way. It works for me every time, although sometimes it is hard when you like someone a lot. Just remember, no guy worth your time would use you to get to one of your friends. There are plenty of nice guys out there that aren't shallow. Good luck.

Answer 5

I'm so sorry. I really understand hon. You gotta stop thinking about him and focus on yourself. Hey, his loss. And i'm sure you've heard this a gazillion times but i'm gonna say it anyway: there's other fish in the sea! And those guys are stupid immature and not worth your time. Forget about him because your prince charming is out there somewhere and he's searching for you too. He wants a girl like you and one day, you'll find him. So, forget that guy and move on.

Answer 6

That guy is a piece of poo.

You are so much better than him and first of all you have to realise that.

Don't worry, there are lots of nice guys out there that treat girls properly.

If you crush on a guy that is a player, he will break your heart later.

Good Luck!