How to get over this girl i love that i have been with for 2.5 years..?

Question

Its gone ape ****. We had a massive falling out and I received an sms from her today outlining the fact that she has been sleeping with a guy for money. Hmmm not great. Soooooooo after she sent this sms I did not reply because I felt that my message would be heard loud and clear with a simple no response. Should I let her have the last word and be done with it or should I rip into her which would probably help me a lot. I don't know. I still love her and it does hurt but we have been through some trouble before. God she is just so d**n good looking it hurts! I wanted to marry her. AHHHHHHHHH. What should i do guys? Ultimately what my head wants to do is make her fall in love with me again so I can just drop her like a tonne of bricks ya. Hearing me? Life sucks sometimes ey...

Answer 1

Dump her and find someone worthwhile. And remember, living well is the best revenge.

Answer 2

Forget her.  She cares little for you to disrespect you how she has.

Move on.  You will find someone much more worthy of your time and energy.

Answer 3

I can only suggest that if someone hurts you once they will only hurt you again. She's obviously trying to hurt you by revealing about the other guy she was sleeping with. Who knows if that'ss been the first time and what diseases she may have picked up. Marriage is not recommended, if you're having problems now, they can only get worse later on. I know you're probably all hurt by what she's done, but you deserve better for yourself and need to move on.

Answer 4

im going through it 2 my man hang in there i guess

Answer 5

It may feel good to have the last say, but it will only hurt you in the end.

I was dating this guy and we had a major falling out too, however it also involved me being pregnant. He accused me of trying to trap him and I told him it was an accident and called him a lot of unpleasant names. Then he did the most unthinkable and cruelest thing to me to get the last say. Several months later he decided he still loves me and wants to talk to me and be with our baby, but there is no way after what he did that could ever happen.

So you may be feeling like ripping her a new you know what, but don't. Let go and move on. In the heat of the moment we say and do things to hurt the others, but don't really mean and end up just hurting ourselves. That could be exactly what she is doing to you and there could've never been another man, she just said it to get you angry.