How to get ungrounded?!

Question

so my friend and me were at a going away party for her boyfriend, who is moving to pennsylvania tomorrow. she really likes him, and hes her first boyfriend. they don't really see each other, so it hasn't gone that far. we were saying good bye after her mom showed up to pick us up, and my friend went behind the pavilion and hugged him goodbye and kissed him. it was only a peck on the lips, and we thought her mom's back was turned. when we got into the car, her mom started yelling at her and said that she was grounded from the house phone, the internet, her laptop, email, im, and her cell phone. she cant see any of her friends for like a whole year. she probably wont keep her grounded for that long, but what would make her mom unground her faster so she isn't so miserable?

Answer 1

The best thing to do is to NOT give in to this. Her mother is WRONG. Affection is a natural thing to someone we care about and to be punished for that is not right. Tell her to talk to her mom about it.

This should not go untalked about get her to ask her mom what was so bad about that and talk it through. This kind of parenting really irritates me as it does not prepare our kids for the future it just teaches them that they should not be affectionate towards people we love and care for.  

Answer 2

clean the hole house and get on or knees and beg  

Answer 3

wtf?! she shouldn't be grounded in the first place! she should just sneak out and do whatever she wants anyway. her moms way to overprotective!

Answer 4

The best thing would be to apologize for what she did, and promise never to do it again.

Hope it works!

Answer 5

Holy **** your friend's mom is a *****, but I would follow the grounded rules and be really nice cause if she brakes the rules it will be really bad.  

Answer 6

Tell her mom shes sorry and she got carried away. Be honest and she will understand. Play the hormone card and tell her she has no idea why she felt that urge and ask mom if it ever happened to her.

Answer 7

I don't know how old you and your friend are.  I hope you are at least 13. There's not a lot you can do to convince her mom to lift the punishment.  Just behave and don't make things worse by calling and trying too hard.  Sounds like her mom overreacted.  I'm sure she won't keep the punishment for a year.

Answer 8

Okay... I can tell you are just a kid so...what i would do is go tell her that I am sorry and explain how I felt, then ask how she feels. And stop hiding things from her. She'll find out anyway. And plus, if it's her first boyfriend...it probaly wasn't worth being grounded for unless she tounged him down. then she deserves everything she got.

Answer 9

read a book on why it's good to 'wait until marriage', write a book report, and give it to parents.  Then they'll know you read it.

Answer 10

holy shiite your friend mom is beatch