How to get your man to ask you out on a dinner date?

Question

Well I'm one of those girls who doens't like her man or nobody to pay for her to go out to the movies, dinner, or just even to buy a teddybear.

I want him to take me out so badly but I just dont know how to get over the guilty feeling or however i may feel.

Answer 1

Simple! Ask him.

Answer 2

The guy doesn't have to pay for everything. Tell him you're going to mix it up a bit, maybe you can each pay half.

Answer 3

If he's already your man... Well, take him out for a picnic or dinner or something.  Then, you won't feel bad when he does take you out because you do things for him as well!  You shouldn't focus too much on who's paying for what unless one of you feels like your being taken advantage of, though...  I think it's great that you feel like you don't want your man paying for everything, but he probably recognizes that too and appreciates it, but also would like to take you out sometimes...

Answer 4

Switch it around. Instead of feeling quilty think of it as your helping him out, like your letting him fufill his manly boyfriend duty of taking his girlfriend out on a date. And if your having trouble asking him just tell him that you have been craving food from a particular restaurant and tell him you guys should go there sometime then the next time you guys are wondering what to eat that night, instead of eating fast food suggest that restaurant youve been taking about.

Answer 5

A good man wouldn't have to be asked.

Answer 6

Simple, ask him out instead. You sound like a good girl by the way... A lot of girls on this site are gold digging tramps that expect their bf to pay for everything.

Answer 7

Here's a great way to be rid of the guilt... Have him treat you this time around and you can the next. Then, you will both feel pampered.