I would like a small wedding, but my fiancé and I probably can't even afford much of one at that. His mother would like to pay for all or most of it, but I know that she and I disagree on almost every aspect of what our wedding should look like. She thinks it should be a big, elaborate production, and I'm just not comfortable or happy with that. His mother and I are friends, but I think that if we started planning a wedding with her help, it would become "her" wedding or a giant argument. It is important to me to have some kind of traditional ceremony (not considering eloping). Any advice on how to handle the situation without hurting anyone's feelings? Should we just try to pay for a wedding ourselves even though that won't look like what we want either? Looking for thoughtful advice.
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